55: Moths vs. Humans

Becca is tired and is developmentally comparable to a 3-year-old
Moth’s-3; Human’s-0
Trivia
TV giving a sense of a regular schedule
Tim rolls his rrrr’s
Oh we have advice for you
Wild Things
We see ourselves in our boys more than is healthly
We have to deal with our own childhoods when we have kids
Marriages tend to get harder when we have kids, maybe because we are dealing with our pasts instead of just being busy
Dredging the muck up in our marriages time and time again when we go through life crises
All this today if you’re going through a marital crises you’re not alone
No matter what we think or story we’ve told ourselves about our childhood there are things in that are going to leave marks where we’ve destroyed some part of our selves in order to make it or get by
Males make vows to never have emotions that leave them vulnerable
Sometimes it speaks to our worth when others are able to show “perfect” emotions
Being embarrassed of your son having a huge emotional swing
Trying to stop our kids negative emotions rather then entering into it
The lie of what will get your kids friends
Put your thinking cap on
Stethoscope check
Staying relaxed with our kids when talking about the most important things to us
The Industrial Revolution and the change it brought to parenting
Telling our kids it’s ok to want time with dad